j'adore fabulosity

Fabulous is as Fabulous Does

Fabulous is...

Personal. Fabulousness is being unique and individual and not giving two cares about what anyone else thinks or feels about who you are. Being fab is more than just what you where or how you look. It transcends the physical and consists of completeness: not only looking great, but also feeling great and being great. Being fabulous is about swag. Crazy swag. You have it or you don't.

...As Fabulous Does

"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left" -Marilyn Monroe

Friends, how many of us have them?

According to dictionary.com friendship is a state of intimacy between or among an individual or a group of individuals, but according to my personal definition it is so much more. When speaking on such a topic I gotta quote the great Hov, "honesty, loyalty, friends, and then wealth". But in college it can seem that life becomes "every many for himself." No matter how deep you believe a connection to be or how strong you think you've forged a bond, it can be violated. When it comes too friendship there are three things that I consider off-limits:
1. My stilettos
2. My male left-overs
3. Saying thing behind my back that you never intend to bring to my face

I have developed a bond with each of these girls above over the past two years. Yes, I consider them friends, but all these rules have been violated. But there is much I have come to realize. Life is too short to alienate those who have held you down from day one. At some point in life we all have secrets and violate the unwritten rules of sisterhood, so she that is without sin can cast the first stone. G-Unit, as we've been called, is definitely guilty of disrespecting sisterhood, and I've even thought, at times, that we were only friends out of convenience. Honestly, as much as we have gone through with each other, men, and definitely other females, something is still holding us together and I know that that is much more than convenience or coincidence. I cannot speak for everyone, but I know that when it comes down to it they will be there, and I can't say that about many others. The bottom line is knowing who will come through for your when everyone else doesn't care, who will fight with you when a bitch throws a drink in your face in the club, who would never let you walk out the dorm in something hideous that you thought was cute, who will be brutally honest when necessary, who will go in with you on the biggest bottle of goose of belv that the the liquor store has 6 weekends in a row, who will stay up until 4am on a Tuesday discussing relationships and bitchassness just because you need to talk, or who will hold you down through all the bullshit college can throw your way.


  1. Melody.Darlene said...

    i know exactly what you mean!! i went through the same shit with one of my roommates in college. you have to pick and choose ur battles... and in the end, she is still one of my best friends! good blog!

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